The discrepancy model lets educators determine whether a child requires special-education services. It basically measures how far a particular child has fallen behind his peers. Schools generally set ...

Last fall, I wrote to every therapist on my mailing list and asked them to tell me what sex issues they found particularly challenging. The most common answer, by far, was desire discrepancy. On top ...

Every year, I reach out to all the therapists on my mailing list and ask them what sex-related issues they struggle the most with in the therapy room. Every year, one topic comes out on top: desire ...