The "Hero" General Cut His Daughter’s Hair In Front Of Hundreds To Shame Her—Seconds Later, He Fell To His Knees In Horror When He Saw The Secret She Was Hiding The Grand Oak Country Club was filled with the elite. My father, General Arthur Sterling, was celebrating his 70th birthday. To the world, he was a decorated war hero with a chest full of medals. To me, he was a tyrant who had spent thirty years turning our home into a battlefield. I was standing by the buffet, my hands trembling as I ad